Being a curvy girl is extremely fun and thanks to many curvy celebrities such as, Kelly Brook, The Kardashians & Christina Hendriks being shapely and voluptuous is massively ‘in!’
So, although being a curvy girl has it’s great moments, like being able to have that extra piece of cake on a Sunday, it also has it’s challenges, which can be extremely tough on some. These challenges can really effect some women and their self esteem, making them avoid certain situations, so I thought I would do my best to find a few solutions to these challenges, in the hopes that it helps some of you to feel more confident when facing these dilemmas.
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1. Inappropriate Office Cleavage.
For those who have a fuller bust, may tend to enjoy flaunting these curves on the weekend but not so much in office hours. It can make them feel uncomfortable when dealing in professional situations.
The first and best way to combat this situation (and this goes for all 5 challenges) is to make sure you are wearing the right size! You can take a look at our ‘Most Common Mistakes Made When Bra Shopping’ blog for some fitting advice. Wearing the right size can ensure that you are supported and well covered in your bra.
Next, I would go for more of a full cup style of bra or a fuller balcony. These styles tend to cover more of the breast and do not create a cleavage, so that your male co-workers can keep their eyes focused on your face, rather than elsewhere.
I would recommend…
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A. Freya Rio Balcony Bra £28 – A Freya classic! A great supporting bra which fits like a dream, covers the tops of the breast to avoid too much of a cleavage. Comes in perfect classical, everyday colours. This is a must every day bra!
B. Fantasie Abigail Side Support Bra £33 – The side support on this bra helps to offer a great, rounded shape, which can make you appear smaller than a pointed shape. The high centre ensures a well covered and supported chest.
C. Charnos Sienna Full Cup Bra £28 – Very similar in shape to the Fantasie bra, Charnos bras are always made of a high quality material, meaning the support is always fantastic.
2. The Gym
Fuller busted ladies can really struggle when it comes to exercise, due to the fact that rapid bouncing around can cause a lot of pain to the breasts and a lot of embarrassment for some. This can discourage a lot of women from going to the gym, or doing any form of physical activity. The best solution is to invest in a good quality sports bra! A sports bra, unfortunately, is one of those items where it is best to spend to a bit more money as the quality and material tend to be much better, ensuring a much more supported fit. I would recommend…
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A. Shock Absorber Multi Sports Bra £31 – Shock Absorber have a great reputation when it comes to sports bra as the support is always fantastic, this non wired bra is designed in a smooth high-performance fabric.
B. Freya Active Underwired Sports Bra £28 – This sports bra by Freya is underwired, for those who prefer to have that extra support. The cups feature an inner sling design to help reduce bounce and movement when being active.
C. Panache Sports Bra Black £38 – Panache offer a lightly moulded cup with this particular bra to help reduce friction. The underwired are silicone wrapped to help make them much more comfortable.
3. Meeting Your Boyfriend’s Parents
Meeting your boyfriend’s parent for the first time can be a daunting enough experience, but when faced with the uncomfortable thought at exposing a little too much cleavage it can be even worse! Much like the ‘office appropriate’ bra styles I mentioned in the first challenge I would wear a similar style in this situation. Wearing a t-shirt bra can create a very smooth and rounded look, which appears very neat making you feel supported and well covered.
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A. Cleo by Panache Maddie Balconette Bra £25 – This lightly padded, smooth fabric offers a great lift and support without creating a big ‘in-your-face-cleavage.’ Cleo bras are very comfortable!
B. Curvy Kate Smoothie Bra was £19.95 now £15.96 – A great t-shirt bra by Curvy Kate that is perfect for every day and under tighter fitted clothes.
C. Freya Deco Bra £32 – This Freya t-shirt bra is a cult classic. It offers a great lift and shape and again, is perfect under tighter fitted tops. This is a great every day bra.
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4. Family Holiday
There is nothing quite worse than going on holiday with your parents and older brothers and having men checking out your assets! The same goes for those who holiday with their husband and children. It is best to wear a very well fitted and supported bikini top to avoid this situation and more importantly, to avoid things… falling out! Try these or something similar…
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A. Curvy Kate Marina Moulded Bikini Top was £35 now £18.95 – This gorgeous bikini top is a balconette shape, but does cover much of the breast offering great support and coverage.
B. Fantasie Dominca Asymmetric Swimsuit was £92 now £59.95 – One of the best styles to avoid a cleavage in swimwear is a bandeau style and this asymmetric swimsuit is perfect to help cover you up a little when holidaying with your family.
C. Freya Girl Friday Bandeau Bikini Top was £30 now £17.95 – Another Bandeau, with a little extra support coming from the halter style straps, which can obviously be taken down for perfect tanning purposes. This bandeau style covers the chest to ensure you don’t feel as though you are exposing too much!
5. Running for The Bus
And finally, we have a big dilemma, running for the bus. Now unfortunately, unless you decide to wear a sports bra everyday, you are going to get some degree of bounce when running in a normal, every day bra. If wearing a good supportive bra and the right fit, it will obviously cause a lot less movement but there is still going to be some. So please don’t expect to never have a little bit of a jiggle when running, but I would recommend these bras as excellent, every day pieces!
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A. Curvy Kate Starlet Balconette Bra was £19.95 now £15.96 – This lightly moulded bra gives a great shape and is extremely comfortable!
B. Pour Moi Promise Plunge Bra was £22 now £16.95 – This is a great bra which fits extremely well, it is a lovely balconette shape without being too low.
C. Curvy Kate Gia Balconette Bra was £29 now £22.95 – A classic Curvy Bra with excellent support. This bra fits fantastic and will make you feel the same!
What other challenges do you face every day with being a curvy girl?